Advantages of dating older man
In their early twenties, young girls are still trying to come to terms with their identity. They need a strong anchor, and older men provide that emotional stability. Many online dating sites have made things easier for women to find men of all varieties - single men, divorced men, rich men, and even married men.In fact, many dating sites are full of profiles of married men pretending to be single or divorced.Likewise, many wives or married women are seeking love on these websites. In fact, statistics prove that on an average, American men marry younger women. So I am not talking about a minor age gap between partners in marriage.
Kyle Jones, a 31-year-old Pittsburgh guy, was in news for having a relationship with 91-year-old great grandmother - Marjorie Mc Cool. But this article is about younger women falling in love with older men. Traditionally, it has not just been customary but also advisable for girls to marry men who were a few years older - maybe two to five years older. After all, girls' parents would have secured a commendable standard of living in their middle age, and the girl would like to ensure that she gets similar comforts when she marries.There are biological as well as psychological reasons for marrying older men. If she were to marry a man same age or slightly younger, they both would be starting out together, and would lead a life of struggle initially - at least before they are able to plant their feet firmly in their respective careers.Girls are used to be protected and cared for by their father.Such caring and loving attitude is usually found in older men.Men her age typically (though not necessarily) are as mature or even less mature than the girl, and are not yet ready to take the responsibility of a partner. Girls want to grow up fast, and they feel all grown up with an older man who socializes with similar-age-group friends.